29 Dec

Mom

My mother is not well, battling numerous disorders including non-Hodgkin lymphoma cancer.

Today she called me to let me know that she was not well last night, burning fever, sweating and just not right.  She said she felt like there were two of her and she was speaking to all of us (her children) letting us know things like how much she loves us, that there is no will, to take care of each other, basically final thoughts.  She thought she was dying.  Not sure why, but I feel compelled to right this down.

I believe she had an out of body experience.  You usually here of this and visions of deceased relatives, she only saw us living one – that gave me some peace.

Picture:  May 16th 2017 Leaving hospital day after Mother’s Day

 

12 Sep

Yusuf / Cat Stevens “A Cat’s Attic Tour”

Nida, Tadas, Stover and I at the ” A Cat’s Attic Tour”

A CAT’S ATTIC: YUSUF / CAT STEVENS
Monday, September 12, 2016
Meridian Hall

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Yusuf / Cat Stevens takes fans on career ride in Toronto
By John Williams, Postmedia Network

The peace train is full steam ahead once again.

The man formerly known as Cat Stevens, now going by the official handle Yusuf / Cat Stevens, kicked off his acoustic A Cat’s Attic Tour before a sold-out crowd at Toronto’s Sony Centre for the Performing Arts on Monday night.

It was all in celebration of his 50th anniversary of his first single, I Love My Dog, released way back in 1966.

The notoriously reclusive singer-songwriter was anything but, as he opened up with stories behind some of his most famous songs.

Dressed in jeans and a grey T-shirt, the Rock & Roll Hall of Famer was greeted to a standing ovation before he even played a single note.

And despite it being only his second North American tour since 1978, there were no signs of rust as he launched into Where Do the Children Play? off of his classic 1970 album, Tea For the Tillerman.

The stage looked like something out of a Broadway play, with a full moon shining over a cabin, complete with rustic chairs, boxes of vinyl records and a smoking chimney.

His backing band – which included Eric Appapoulay on guitar and Kwame Yeboah on bass, piano and percussion – were outstanding, and even had Yusuf looking back at them at certain points in amazement.

He told stories early on about his love for Natalie Wood and West Side Story, wanting to be a member of the Beatles (which segued into a stunning version of Love Me Do), and the Neil Diamond-composed I’m a Believer (made famous by the Monkees) keeping him at No. 2 on the charts, a song that he stated was “horrible” (in jest, of course).

Meanwhile, one fan screamed out “Toronto loves you!” between songs, and Yusuf responded with one thumb up and said with a wry smile, “They give me such a hard time getting in here.”

Well played, sir.

A rousing version of The First Cut Is the Deepest had those in attendance back up on their feet again, with Yusuf looking genuinely thrilled by the thunderous applause.

After shunning the spotlight for decades, it seems he’s come to grips with his rock star past.

He told a tale of his brush with death after almost drowning in the ocean of the California coast in 1976, which was the catalyst for his switch from rock star to philanthropist. “I made a promise that if God saved me, I’d work for him,” Yusuf said, as he belted out a great cover of The Impressions’ People Get Ready.

Other standouts included Bad Night, which he told a tale of debauchery in his early days on the road: “You smoke and you drink like one does… especially when you tour with Jimi Hendrix.”

The hits were out in full force as well, with Father and Son (with the crowd in full sing-a-long mode), Peace Train, Morning Has Broken and Another Saturday Night all being played in the last half of the set.

The nearly three-hour journey all came to a close with stunning versions of Wild World, Moonshadow and Oh Very Young, and it also ended the way it started – with fans on their feet.

“I hope you’re enjoying this trip,” Yusuf remarked.

We sure did.

Full setlist:

Where Do the Children Play?

If You Want to Sing Out, Sing Out

Somewhere (West Side Story)

Love Me Do (Beatles cover)

Here Comes My Baby

The First Cut Is the Deepest

I Love My Dog

Matthew & Son (with Tears For Fears Mad World snippet)

Northern Wind (The Death of Billy the Kid)

A Bad Night

Trouble

I Wish, I Wish

Lilywhite/Don’t Be Shy

Pop Star

On the Road to Find Out

Second set:

Miles From Nowhere

Into White

Father and Son

You Can Do (Whatever)

The Wind

Peace Train

Morning Has Broken

How Can I Tell You

Ruins

Another Saturday Night (Sam Cooke cover)

Novim’s Nightmare

People Get Ready (The Impressions cover)

Be What You Must

Just Another Night

Maybe There’s a World/All You Need Is Love

Wild World

Encore:

Moonshadow

You Are My Sunshine (Pine Ridge Boys cover)

Oh Very Young

14 Aug

Tragically Hip’s last ever concert in Toronto

THE TRAGICALLY HIP: MAN MACHINE POEM TOUR
Sunday, August 14, 2016
Scotiabank Arena

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The Tragically Hip have existed the building.

The legendary Canadian band took their final bow in Toronto at the Air Canada Centre last night. The third, and final, night of their Man Machine Poem tour was certainly one filled with emotions – from fans and the band alike.

Another sold-out crowd sang along to the 26-song set list, cherishing the moments of the final show. There were visible tears among fans, especially when Gord Downie seemed to have an emotional and tearful moment on stage. But emotions aside, the band put on one hell of a performance, and Downie’s dance moves throughout the evening energized the crowd. And as the city danced along, many will certainly remember this as “that night in Toronto.”

The Tragically Hip’s final tour continues this week, ending in Kingston on August 20.

The-Tragically-Hip-160810-ACC-Mike-Fowler-15Photo by MIKE S. FOWLER for CORUS ENT.

26 Jul

Napoleon Hill’s Thought for the Day

If you must let someone down, be sure it isn’t the friend who helped you up when you were down.

We all have short memories. We become preoccupied with our own interests and daily cares, and it’s easy to lose track of friends. There will always be times when you must choose between what you wish to do and what you must do. When you are faced with such decisions, make sure you always remember those true and loyal friends who were there when you needed them, and never, under any circumstances, abandon them. When you let down a friend who helped you when you needed it most, you will not only adversely affect the friendship; you will seriously damage your own self-respect. When you fail a friend, regardless of how heavy your own burdens may be, you also fail yourself. If you absolutely cannot do what good friends would like, find another way to make it up to them.

13 Dec

Take possession of your own mind, and you may soon make life pay off on your terms.

Your mind is unquestionably your most valuable possession. You may lose every material thing you own, but knowledge can never be taken from you. With it, you can earn a new fortune, build a new home, and buy anything you truly desire. No one else can control your thoughts; even the cruelest tyrant cannot force you to think about something you refuse to accept. When you make a deliberate decision to take control of your mind and feed it positive, constructive thoughts, you are on your way to taking control of your life. The thoughts you allow to dominate your mind will determine what you will get from life.

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This is the date I quit smoking.  Dec 13 2015 1:50pm

06 Oct

99 u

There’s a reason most “conventional” career advice sucks: the world is changing at a rapid clip. When well-meaning mentors give advice based on their experiences decades ago, it’s kind of like teaching someone how to drive using a horse and buggy.

In his latest book, Average Is Over, economist Tyler Cowen argues that we need to reshape the way we think about jobs, and in turn, our careers, in the wake of this rapid technological change.

As most industrialized nations outsource and automate jobs, labor becomes more abundant and employment harder to come by. In a world of Amazon drones, who needs postal workers? When the Google self-driving car hits the mass market, will we no longer need taxi drivers?

Yet the challenge for creators is more subtle: rather than being replaced by robots, we have to worry about competition on a global scale. (As online education becomes ubiquitous how can the art school graduate in Brooklyn ask for the same fee as the Photoshop master in India?)

So how can we best prepare ourselves for this new career dynamic, where we must stave off outsourcing at every turn? We asked Cowen to break down the bulletproof “soft skills” needed for next era of careers:

1. Own your life choices, and don’t let comparison make you envious.

One side effect of the rise of automation is that everything we do can and will become measureable. We are already able to see the bloggers with the most views, the creative with the most Twitter followers. But soon, even service jobs will be subject to what Cowen calls “hyper meritocracy,” where everything is measured, tracked, and ranked. As a result, comparison to our peers, and the subsequent anxiety that comes with that, is inevitable. We’ll always know where we stack up, and employers will be able to compensate us accordingly.

The upshot of this is that survival in the new career landscape offers an interesting choice: Will you “live to work,” and do everything it takes to max out these measurements to impress your employers? Or do you prefer to “work to live,” to maximize your leisure and family time? Cowen explains:
For those at the top end, you require responsibilities and a network of commitments, you have traded favors with people on the way up. It’s very hard to just back out of that and say I’m going to sit around the pool today. You’re always on call, there’s always email coming at you. You work the whole time and that has its rewards but it’s also a pain.

True meritocracy is quite psychologically oppressive. Our failures and shortcomings hurt and depress us more than learning about our virtues. I think this is one of the troubling aspects of this new world where everything gets measured. People don’t really like that. They want to think that they’re better than they are. That they are more productive than they are. That they have maybe have a brighter future than they do.

That’s what I mean by “Average is over.” The world is forcing us to make choices and they’re not that easy.

2. Don’t learn to code, learn how to work with technology.

A common refrain from those in the tech industry is that everyone should learn to code. There are a multitude of organizations (e.g. Code Academy, Treehouse, and Udacity among many others) set up to help mid-career professionals pick up this new skill as well as a growing demand that we include programming in our primary school curriculum.

If becoming a programmer is appealing to you, great. But seeking employment based on any one “hard skill” is an outdated way of thinking. The rapid evolution of technology forces us to constantly reconsider which hard skills are in demand. (And we should). Staying on top of the hard skills needed is a necessity in the short term, but one of the best ways to position yourself for success in the long term is to focus on the soft skills needed no matter what technology you are working with.

“There is often this naive reaction a lot of people have,” says Cowen. “They say, ‘Now I need to take X number of years off, learn all the skills of computer programming and become a programmer.’ Very often that’s a bad way to go. It’s people who integrate technical skills with knowledge of a concrete area and who understand marketing, presentation, and persuasion.”

In other words, if your job gets better with technology you’re in good shape. Think of the doctor that can use complicated computer-aided readouts to produce an accurate diagnosis, or the sales person that can sift through client data to work more efficiently.

“Take Mark Zuckerberg who, of course, has been a great programmer,” says Cowen. “There is much more to Facebook than that. It’s appealing, it gets people to come back, and he was a psychology major. It’s that integration that’s important.”

The smartest workers will be able to leverage technology to their advantage and be able to recognize the big-picture ways to utilize it. The technology will change. The means of accessing will change. But strategically implementing it will remain in constant demand for tomorrow’s workforce.
The smartest workers will be able to leverage technology to their advantage and be able to recognize the big-picture ways to utilize it.

3. Become a first-rate leader and collaborator.

It’s impossible to outsource great leadership. As jobs and companies become more specialized and competition more fierce, top companies will increasingly fight for workers that show leadership chops.

“Computers are very far from being able to manage human beings and motivate them and set expectations and inspire,” says Cowen. “So that’s a big sector of managing — making people feel good about themselves, getting other people to cooperate. That’s really a growth sector if you cannot do the technical things.”

Cowen points out that executives, managers, supervisors, and financial professionals captured 70 percent of all salary gains from 1979 to 2005. In other words, it’s the leaders and big-picture thinkers that are thriving the most.

“Very often the people ‘in the field’ do not think conceptually about their own operations,” says Cowen. It’s increasingly difficult to think of the big picture while in the tunnel vision of a specific role.

Because of this hyper-specialization, creative teams will need workers who they enjoy collaborating with. As we all become more specialized, the problems we are solving will become increasingly complex. This means that collaboration across different areas of expertise will become even more important. One person alone cannot design the self-driving car.

“There won’t be much room for a ‘rebel without a cause’ or, for that matter, a rebel with a cause,” writes Cowen.

4. Learn to market your work.

Even if you have the skills and connections, success still means getting your work noticed. No matter what field you are in, marketing your work will only get harder in the decades to come. To paraphrase Reddit founder Alexis Ohanian: On the Internet, a funny cat video is always a click away. Those who can authentically and effectively do battle with Buzzfeed listicles and Instagram photos will always be in demand. Cowen says:
Marketing is the sort of skill that is hard to outsource because you need to know a lot of local knowledge of time and place usually. To figure out what your readers are like or what some market segment is like [takes time], and the idea that you just hire some smart genius in India to solve it is not going to work.

“Marketing” in this context is different than taking a class at your local college. It’s about having a deep, entrenched understanding of your subject matter and target audience. The kind of high-level analytical thinking required to do this work can never be automated and will always be in demand.

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This Wild West landscape painted by Cowen and others can be a bit frightening, but with uncertainty comes opportunity. Top performers in every field are getting paid better than ever. We’ve seen the rise of digital nomads and solo entrepreneurs for those who like to go their own way. And, most importantly, an increased emphasis on job-agnostic “soft skills” means that we can quickly switch careers to match our interests and beliefs. It’s easier than ever to tailor-make a career and lifestyle that aligns with what makes us happy.

The creatives that succeed will be the ones that embrace these changes and use them to generate more opportunity and more chances to truly impact our world. To quote William Gibson: “The future is already here — it’s just not very evenly distributed.”

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Article: http://99u.com/articles/20696/you-dont-need-to-learn-to-code-other-truths-about-the-future-of-careers?utm_source=99U&utm_campaign=b368778217-Weekly_10_05_2014&utm_medium=email&utm_term=0_bdabfaef00-b368778217-149036613

06 Oct

Planning

“It takes as much energy to wish as it does to plan.”
— Eleanor Roosevelt

25 Jul

Self-pity is an opiate

The most insidious problem with drugs is that the human body develops a tolerance for them and requires larger and larger doses to achieve the same effect. The same is true with self-pity. The more you allow yourself to indulge in it, the more you will require. Soon, self-pity will become a habit, one so debilitating that you will rob yourself of all the potential you possess. Happily, there is a cure. If you truly analyze the situation, most often you will find that the problems that have driven you to pity yourself are mostly of your own creation. It follows, then, that the best person to remedy the problem is the person who created it: you, yourself.

24 Jul

Those who do more than they are paid for will sooner or later be willingly paid for more than they do.

If you consistently do more than you are paid to do — whether you are a professional, an executive, an hourly worker, or an entrepreneur — you will eventually be compensated for far more than you do. If you give more and better service than those around you, customers will beat a path to your door, and your boss will consider you irreplaceable. With the dearth of outstanding service that exists in the world today, you can instantly differentiate yourself from the competition simply by providing good service.

04 Apr

Always

Always,
Be understanding to your enemies.
Be loyal to your friends.
Be strong enough to face the world each day.
Be weak enough to know you cannot do everything alone.

Always,
Be generous to those who need your help.
Be frugal with that you need yourself.
Be wise enough to know that you do not know everything.
Be smart enough to continue learning.

Always,
Be willing to share your joys.
Be willing to share the sorrows of others.
Be a leader when you see a path others have missed.
Be a follower when you are shrouded by the mists of uncertainty.

Always,
Be first to congratulate an opponent who succeeds.
Be last to criticize a colleague who fails.
Be sure where your next step will fall, so that you will not tumble.
Be sure of your final destination, by setting your goals along the way.

And Most Important from All,…
Do not Be Ashamed for what You,..
Be Yourself and Appreciate whoever You are and whatever You Can Do
Cause Every One of Us is Special…

01 Mar

Things

“The things you do for yourself are gone when you are gone, but the things you do for others remain as your legacy.” ― Kalu Ndukwe Kalu

01 Mar

“But for the grace of God”

Whenever you’re discontented…with the life you lead…just take the time to look around…and to my phrases heed…you’ll find that you are better off…than many others who…must struggle up the road of life…the self same way as you…although your cross seems heavy…there is no need to frown…for others carry so much more…beneath their troubled crown…which reminds me of a story…part of which I’ll now repeat…about the man who had no shoes…and one who had no feet…in other words be thankful…whatever be your lot…true happiness is gained by those…who value what they’ve got…and so I bid you look around…and here’s the reason why…you’ll say but for the grace of God…that person could be I.

28 Feb

Sixty Seconds

As we grow up, we learn that even the one person that wasn’t supposed to ever let you down probably will.
You will have your heart broken probably more than once and it’s harder every time.
You’ll break hearts too, so remember how it felt when yours was broken.
You’ll fight with your best friend. You’ll blame a new love for things an old one did.
You’ll cry because time is passing too fast, and you’ll eventually lose someone you love.

So take too many pictures, laugh too much, and love like you’ve never been hurt because every sixty seconds you spend upset is a minute of happiness you’ll never get back.